Setting up a community on a property can be a long process, an alternative could be to set up a network of kindred spirits, with options to visit/stay/hangout. I happen to live in an apartment but with w detached small vegetable garden. That can work, as an alternative to live on a rural property. It is eco friendly as it is well insulated. I don't own it but it is a secure rental for life. I wished I had gay neighbours, that would make it more fun, wouldn't it. :).
There are urban and even suburban intentional communities. In the ic.org directory there is everything under the Sun.